SS, 17, was reading Ernest Hemingway’s Farewell to arms, when I met him this past weekend in Stone Mountain, Georgia. He’s just graduated at top of his class at a special public STEM school and will start pursuing his Computer science degree at Princeton this fall. Princeton University, in the same league of Yale and Harvard, is a private Ivy League research university in Princeton, New Jersey. Here’s the transcript of my face to face interview with him.
*
Heart: Is the general theme of your life these days, hope? I mean, hope for the future?
SS: No, I think its working for the future. Its like, unabashed, constant, perseverance for a goal, and not even hoping for anything. Just work for it and not hope for it, that’s the stage I’m in right now.
*
Heart: That’s very profound. What did you have to sacrifice to get here?
SS: Um, sometimes, personal relationships. Sometimes, going out with friends. Um, I really didn’t have to sacrifice much, I enjoy what I do.
*
Heart: So, you’re where you are because of your passion?
SS: I would say so. But, on the same note, I wish I was passionate about other things like, I wish I could be as passionate as I’m about academics, about community service because that’s something I really want to get into. So, I wish there was a duality to my personality, but there isn’t.
*
Heart: What parameters does Princeton see before accepting you into their program, other than academics? Obviously, your GPA must’ve been high and you’re a valedictorian.
SS: They review my all round character, passion for learning, they look for an overall package, I guess. They admit some people who’re all stars in their field like Swimming National champions or Math geniuses.
I think I was admitted in that kind of like, overall good category, you know, I’ve academics, I’m involved in school, I’m in leadership positions, so, yeah, I guess overall and strong academics.
*
Heart: I’ve recently read a book called Hillbilly Elegy and J.D. Vance, whose memoir it is, is this poor kid from rural Appalachia who ends up going to Yale law school, because he gets a need based scholarship. But, the point is, he talks about this almost cult like atmosphere there. You belong to this high powered Yale fraternity and somehow you’ll always have to keep up with that. Have you heard of anything like that in the Ivy league culture?
SS: Yeah, there’s a lot of elitism in the Ivy league culture, and you see a lot of economic disparity in the Ivy leagues. Because, I think the average income of the families that send their kids here is well above 150,000$ a year.
And like, almost 40% don’t qualify for financial aid at all. So, that indicates that there’s a high proportion of these rich people in comparison with the general population. So, yeah, there’s like a social enclaves present in the ivy leagues that keep the first generation and low income students out of the ivy leagues. Yeah, I would agree with that statement. And also, because I think these institutions tend to be liberal there’s a gap between the conservative silent majority, per se, and the liberal nature of these institutions.
*
Heart: What’s your ultimate goal in life?
SS: Um, Wall street, financial analyst, computer scientist, designing those algorithms that they use to trade.
*
Heart: There’s almost a guarantee that you’ll end up there. But, what about the burnout rate? I guess, if you want that kind of a life, you need to start meditating right away. (Laughs)
SS: Oh yeah, yeah, I’ve heard the hours on places like Goldman Sachs are like, just crazy. So, yeah, its a scary life. Maybe for a few years I’ll do that, and then see what I can do.
*
Heart: And then you’ll become a yogi (monk)?
SS: (Laughs) Yes.
*
Heart: Its a balancing act and I’m sure you’ll do well. So, when you see kids who have no direction, how does that make you feel?
SS: No, actually, I don’t think anyone of us really knows what we’re doing.
*
Heart: That’s a good answer that can fit the broader public.
SS: Um, I think we’re just trying to adapt for the world that we’re put in. I guess, we’re in different stages to getting to where we want to be, so there’s a range of time where we’re directionless, including me. I still think I’m there.
*
Heart: Yeah, I think a lot of us are totally clueless for the most part. (Laughs) So, are there any apps that you can’t live without?
SS: I don’t use a lot of social media, I just have Facebook and Snapchat.
*
Note: Before you rate this episode, please consider if you would’ve been so open and authentic about your own life. Earlier episodes available at The Anonymous Manifesto.
* * *
The Anonymous Manifesto is where strangers tell their stories anonymously. We’re all fabulous in our own little ways, aren’t we? And since our world is getting pretty condensed, this social experiment might expand our combined horizons.
*
Why Anonymous Manifesto?
Wait, I am confused. Why interview people?
Fair question. To find out how everyone else is able to live this unlivable life. And most importantly, to get back to having conversations with our fellow earth dwellers while prodding each other with deep questions.
What’s the point?
These interviews might show us that we are all people who are exciting, heartbroken, crazy, lonely, and thriving in some way and the same way. These interviews might inform, entertain, compel, touch, impact and inspire.
What’s a manifesto?
A public declaration of personal lessons, dreams, aspirations, opinions and goals.
Why anonymous?
These people are like you and me, common folks. Moreover, why wait in line to snag celebrity interviews? Eh?
Disclaimer:
This is not an opinionated survey of the human survival landscape. It’s a snapshot of their life in the now. To each his own.
Can I sign up to be interviewed?
Have a pulse? Sure, then email us at: info@futurestrong.org.
* * *
The Anonymous Manifesto
The Anonymous Manifesto – Interviews And Discussions With Regular Folks Who Are Giving Life’s It’s Best Shot
The Anonymous Manifesto The Anonymous Manifesto is where strangers tell their stories anonymously. We’re all fabulous in our own little ways, aren't we? And since our world is getting pretty condensed, this social experiment might expand our combined horizons....
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 38 – The Tigers in the Midst of Us
SS, in her 50's from Aurangabad, India, never went to school for a medical degree. Yet, a few years ago, she managed to deliver a baby girl in the middle of the night in a moving train. Last month, when we found ourselves face to face for the first time, she told me...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 37 – Diamonds On Her One Hand And Dirt On The Other
CB, originally from Iran, invites me into her home in Los Angeles one evening. She seems to have kept her roots alive because the home feels like a modern house version of a small Persian empire. The rugs, the carpets, the tea cups and even the pillow cases have an...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 36 – Joining the Kurt Cobain and Jim Morrison Club
* PK, was two days away from her 27th birthday when I met her. "I'm entering the Kurt Cobain and Jim Morrison club," she says as I wished her. She had come to the States as a 12 year old girl from South Korea in 2002. She talks about her love for reading and writing,...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 35 – Conspiring with the Universe
* SD, in her 40's, has a goal of removing money from the world. She is a meditation teacher and a Consciousness Creator. She lives in India with her husband and daughter and is working on her life's goal of raising the level of human consciousness in the...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 34 – The Original Vietnamese Boat People
* KH, in her 60’s, fled Vietnam after South Vietnam fell to the Communists in 1975. Her journey to America is not only filled with the horrors of daily terror but also the remarkable kindness of strangers. It took her family 3 years before they could escape out of...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 33 – On Your Tomb Stone Only The ‘–’ Matters
* AN, in her 40's, from small town, Alabama, is a restaurant worker with a heart of gold. She is raising 5 children, 2 hers and 3 her sister's. Two of the 5 children are autistic and one has a gifted level IQ. We discuss her philosophy, "On your tombstone you've your...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 32 – Having Nothing To Lose At 32
* JJ, 32, never took music lessons a single day in his life and now writes his own songs and performs all around the world. His goal as he puts it, is to "move your soul". A two time cancer survivor, JJ has not been afraid to readjust his dreams based on how his...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 31 – Connecting Science and Religion at 13
* SP, 13, from Georgia, talks about life as she enters into high school. She talks about her passion for Science and Religion, and how one day she hopes to have all answers for religion based on Science. When you read her responses, its difficult not to wonder if...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 30 – On Being a United States Navy Seal and Living on the Side Walk
UR, 60, looks years older than his real age. As you read along you'll know what his name is, but I think in his case, its really cool to know his real name. He's a United States Navy Seal and he's homeless in Atlanta. At the cross section of Peachtree street and 10th...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 29 – Leaving the Light on for Those on Their Last Leg
DP, 69, originally from India is a retired Medical Oncologist who writes poetry in Hindi in his leisure time. He talks about his childhood trips to the nearest big town, which would take his family from dawn to dusk in bullock carts and two trains. He talks...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 28 – Making America Home
* KP, in her 60’s, had just returned from a trip to India 12 hours ago when I ambushed her for an interview. She lives in a small town in Alabama with her husband who's a retired Medical Oncologist. She talks about her childhood in India and her journey to becoming a...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 27 – A Wild Child From Fiji Rewires Her Mind In America
* MV, in her 40's, was born in the Fiji islands to Indian parents and moved to the States when she was 16. She talks about her beautiful childhood on the island, her move to America in her teens and her quest for becoming the best version of herself while helping...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 26 – A French Woman’s Muse: Food and Photography
* AA, 37, invites me into her house in Johns Creek, Georgia, on the day of our meeting where there's a Carrom board to the wall in the living room. The living room and the adjacent dining room have a sparse yet cozy European feel to it owing to the fact that AA's...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 25 – Meditations on the Mind, Intellect and Values
* PS, 70, is a life long student of Spirituality. She has studied the Bhagavad Gita for 45 years and talks about the importance of realizing our 7 original divine qualities, the relationship between Anger and Desire, and how our happiness doesn't have to depend on...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 24 – Beating Loneliness, Mistakes, and Kids Into Shape
* SHVM, 25, is a quintessential village boy whose name fits the stereotypical multi-syllable name all of us Indians are accused of having. Inspite of living in America for just 3 years, he already has tips for us on how to beat loneliness and live communally, how...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 23 – Traveling Far Enough To Meet Himself
* CW, 33, has German ancestry and has plans to visit atleast 50 countries before he turns 40. He tells me about his childhood after his parents divorced when he was 7, the poverty and instability that followed, his strained relationship with his mother owing her...
The Anonymous Manifesto – Ep. 22 – She Has Einstein for a Pet :)
AG, 13, lives with her family and her dog Einstein in Atlanta. Her father is from Mexico and her mother is from Peru. I ask her about her her favorite foods, her idea about church and her social media life. You’ve to read every word of hers fully keeping her...
Questions, just ask!
Text or Call: 678.310.5025 | Email: info@futurestrongacademy.com
Bringing a Group? Email us for a special price!